The Millionaire Matchmaker Dishes: The Biggest Mistakes Girls Make When it Comes to Dating

By Ashley-Lynn Goldstein (George Washington University)

The Millionaire Matchmaker dishes what she feels are the biggest mistakes girls make when it comes to dating.

They Go on Too Many Unproductive Dates

“The problem is we women are very impatient. We want it now. Instant gratification! Sometimes the best guys are worth waiting for. You might get one good date a year, versus 100 bad ones, but he’s worth it.”

How does this relate to us college girls?

Its easy to get distracted by the nice enough frat guy who you find yourself hooking up with a few times on a Saturday ngiht, but don’t settle for nice enough. If he doesn’t make you feel fabulous, and you will know if he does or doesn’t, your worth it to find a guy who does. Don’t settle…its never worth it and a complete waste of time.

They think a guy will always like them if he just gets to know them.

“A guy knows right away if he’s attracted to you or not. There’s no warming up.”

How does this relate to us college girls?

If he’s not into you right away, he won’t be more into you after a few weeks. Guys are simple either they like you or they don’t. If they don’t your better off not wasting your time and spending it with someone who realizes how amazing you are.

Girls forget their manners.

“The key to a good date is to smile. Engage with eye contact. Let him lead and then you compliment little things along the way. If he orders the dessert and you guys share it, say, ‘Oh, this is the best chocolate mousse, I’m so glad you picked this.’ Manners are key. Most people do not have manners.”

How does this relate to us college girls?

The good guys date girls that they can bring home to their mother. Remember to always say thank you, dress appropriately (if he’s taking you to dinner don’t wear something that you’d wear out to a club or frat party). Look like a girlfriend, not a one-night stand. Act like a girlfriend, not a slob.