By: Amanda Schweitzer (Hofstra)
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Hey all you Campus Divas! So, you like a guy, you think he likes you back, you have sex with him… now what? Is he into you or did he just want to have sex with you. Guys can be extremely difficult to read when it comes to intimacy, relationships, and being serious (no offense men). Therefore, if you are looking for a relationship then don’t have sex with him on your first date. Unless, as Chelsea Handler puts it, “If we have sex with you on the first night chances are we aren’t interested in seeing you again either.”
Ways To Tell He Doesn’t Want A Relationship With You
– He’s not interested in what you have to say
If you are talking to him and he doesn’t seem interested then give up. Being in a relationship is a two way street. If you are a booty call he doesn’t need to know about your trip to the dentist.
– He texts one word answers
You write: “Hey! Oh my god so the other day…etc.” He writes: Neat
– He doesn’t call or text you first
If you feel that the only way you two communicate is when you call or text then it really is not meant to be. Watch the movie He’s Just Not That Into You, if a guy wants to be with you… he will call.
– He doesn’t look at you when you talk
If he doesn’t make eye contact with you when you talk he is either extremely shy or not interested.
– He talks about other girls
If every time you are with him he says how hot different girls are then I’m sorry to say but you are just one of those “hot girls” he talks about banging.
– He comes up with excuses not to hangout
In other words, you don’t hangout unless sex is involved.
– He doesn’t want to meet your friends.
If you are a booty call he will not want to meet your friends unless you are willing to involve them or give him other options.
– He definitely doesn’t want to meet your parents
When it’s over he doesn’t want your dad chasing him down with a bat.
So ladies remember if you feel he is just not that into you then forget him. It isn’t worth the struggle or the fight because there are plenty of guys out there that want a relationship and won’t use you for ass. Unless you don’t mind having sex without strings attached. If so, go crazy!