By: Amanda Schweitzer (Hofstra University)
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Most women like the feeling of security in a relationship. Gaining attention from a male helps women have high self-esteem and makes them feel valuable. Most women can agree that jealousy arises when your date glances over at another women making them act insecure and clingy. This will push a man away.
Here are some reasons why he never called again:
Ladies, a big turnoff for a male is when you are too clingy. Guys like their personal space and don’t want to be suffocated by you. It is important to feel the same way because it will make you more vulnerable and harder to get. When a guy tells you he can’t hangout don’t ask 20 questions just say okay and make other plans.
– Giving it up too quickly
Having sex too soon is the worst thing you can do if you are looking for a serious relationship. Fucking too quickly will decrease the excitement. He will feel that you are too easy and move on to someone else that may be more of a challenge. Keep him wanting more and tease him in the bedroom.
– Calling him
If a guy wants to see you he will call you. Don’t text or call him over and over again it will make you seem desperate. Friendly texts are okay once in awhile such as a good morning text but when you keep texting him throughout the day and you are getting one word answers, give up.
Never let a guy know your insecurities. Many women feel insecure in a relationship that makes them clingy. Who cares about other girls as long as you know your man is coming home with you at the end of the night.
– Being too available
Don’t hangout every time a guy asks you to. Have girl’s nights sometimes. Guys have no problem hanging out with the boys so it is only fair. This also makes them wonder what you are doing and their curiosity about you will increase.
Jealousy is never a good thing. It will show a guy that you are insecure and make them feel like they have power.
Men, what is something a girl does that you feel pushes you away?